Dhyey's First visit in theatre

Movie Experince:

Few Days before we took him to watch movie "Zindagi na milegi doobara", We have never been in theatre with him, it was his first experience in theatre. As usual movie was started by National Anthem “jan-gana-man….”  He stood mutely, after that, “mumma-nanny chalo”( mom-dad ghar chalo)

guess why??????
Because school ends with National Anthem…:P
Mumma: “baby its just beginning, watch big TV over here..:-)”
Okey,
Let me share his experience over there: well,,, as expected, don’t know but somehow I was feeling that he will enjoy in theatre and movie too, and happened the same.very first I looked at him, I was little confused because he was totally speechless, expressionless!!
I asked him: beta, ghar jana he? He nodded his head and I got Biggg “Nooooo” from his side. , he was observing it peacefully. How can I say he observed well?? Because he has rememberd every scenes and songs as he tells me when he finds some scenes in trailers and songs in TV, and says “mumma, same same movie”. Recognize each and every scene of it… well now we have no troubles to take him along in Movie…. Cheers mumma!!!!!

Some Snippets from Dhyey's Planet

Fear of Police:

he has a fear of Police!!!

When he does some mischiefs, police has become a good medicine for him,
Last week i told him, police locks the kids who doesn’t drink milk and eat properly.
By the moment in every talk, he tells me, mumma do this otherwise, police will lock up you!!! Now u sayme, who is mom hear??
And sometimes, I tell him, dhyey police is coming, at the moment he starts running, and hide somewhere in a second!! , I cant stop laughing..:D

Now I have fear, how can I flash fear of police from his mind???
*******Sad mumma, u should have to think about it before u punish your cute baby…********


Sleeping Habit


He asks me to cover himself with his blanket as soon as he is in bed. When I do so , he asks me to sleep with him, he hugs me lovingly, lays his lips on my cheeks(way of kissing) and then he sleeps cheerfully.

One step Further:
He moved his little fingers from my head through my hair. (aah!!! Divine Feelings) and then he did massage on my head and then he laid hands over my hair and rubbed it.
 I asked him, “guru, what is Going on??”,
Guru:”Mumma, masas , hay oil” (massage n hair oil)..
(one day he found me doing so on sarang’s head while hair oiling)

I am Thinking , he is All Grownup now!!!


Sorry mumma:
When he feels he has made some mistakes (as I stop speaking with him, n he gets idea of the situation).  He holds his both ears , and bend his head on right shoulder then left-right-left shoulder continuously with big smile and says “sorry mumma, please”. till I says “its okay, don’t do this again”. And sometimes, he hits himself and speaks alone, say sorry, say sorry 2 mumma.. :p

This lovely boy gives in return, u see,,here..
When I scold him he says me,”u  shapap, shapap” (shut up),
Police, police,, (police aayegi, dhyey ko danta kyu??)


Kitchen Lover:

Some of u might know about my love of cooking,, now here is the extension!!!!
Guru also loves being in kitchen. During my work in kitchen(work for recipes I post on my blog), he accompanies me , arranges vassals in shapes and size wise, he adds something and makes container empty, transfers from one to another jar, has become his routine in kitchen. He doesn’t like to go away from mumma and her kitchen as well. He observes me while I takes some photos of food and some dishes.,
Now he got a new trend, u know he arranges some toys or objects in some manner and asks me to take a photograph of his creativity!!! See here is a result of his carving &creation:

School Time

Mom…Its School time…

U Knw,men are born with Love for cars and bikes and whatever you do , it remains and it cannot be changed. But here it is something different. As I told in my previous post he is crazy after trains in recent days.I have to wake him up early, as his class starts by 8:30am.
I don’t have to take much efforts to make him ready as he gets up early.. I know you are thinking wow, what a good boy, without much effort he gets up early!!!!
But…but.. but..let me tell you the thing behind this: “ Thomas and Friends!!!!!”
Show starts at 7:30 to 8 am, he wakes up, sat in front of TV, by the time, completes his milk, and takes a bath during advertise time. Thank u Thomas and Friends…


When its time to wear uniform,”no mumma pease(please), no mumma no kools (school)
Mumma: Why do you cry at school? U r good boy na??
Dhyey: Mumma, Chiklav haap, chikalav haap, no klools pease
(muje vaha bacche pareshan karte hey!!!!)

Mumma: U can tell your Teacher, u should make new friends there,…
Dhyey: Teacher-Je Je, je-je, je-je
(teacher sirf Prayer karvati hay je-je matlab Prayer)

Mumma: Accha batao, aaj Dhyey school me kya khayega?
Dhyey: Chikips (buscuits)

            Teacher reports me, he eats buscuits but from others lunchbox....:D
When I Drop him into the class, at the moment he will take his waterbottle from my hand, he has always fear, that teacher may not return it to him!!! He is becoming very possessive, don’t know why, but Pussesiveness is happening just after he has started going to school.

At the School Compound:
Mumma: Hi dhyey, see mumma has come 2 pick up you, did you enjoy your class 2day?
Mumma,,”tako, call auto , tako(dhup) call auto”
(abhi dhup lag rahi hey, auto bulao, ghar jake baate karenge)!!!

These days he tries to speak all the words but some words doesn’t sound like it should :D

he is going through a stage when he wants things to be done in his own way. When I scold him or we say “No” for something ,that turns into aggressiveness. Its becoming progressively more complicated for us to handle him. One more incident : He wanted to have milk in his own manner, I did not allow him, because like that way, he spilled milk, so I tried to convince him, and took cup in my hand, now see what ahead, he did not sip from it,,not even once…..:(

Arrived At home:
Directly rush into the bathroom, takes shower, meanwhile shows me cartoon & star on his hand ,made by his teacher. When I take shower spray in my hand to give him shower, “no mumma, jate, jate( don’t help me, I’ll)  “    ****SIGH*********

Its Little Late..

Its Little Late i know, don’t know how I missed to write about dhyey’s first week in school. I want to preserve it in my blog and memory too…..

Second Day:
As Happy as on First day, because mumma was with him in class.

Third Day:
He was very eager to leave the home, because he did not know he will have to stay there with out mom, till the school he was happy, when I dropped him into the class, he was little confused as he didn’t find mom there, but after few minutes he found some kids crying, he also started rubbing his cheeks… we were told to wait outside of class , and from the glass door some scene were visible so, one by one we all moms watched our kids. I could listen his crying clearly..:(  when he came out with his mates, he was so overwhelmed , hugged me , trying to control his tears but rolled down finally,.

Fourth Day:
Just like third day, as usual,, crying on and off..

Second Week:
In this week school increased time slowly by half an hour, parents waited outside of class and just waited to set their kids.

Last Day of Second Day:
It was Friday,very bad day for Dhyey and also for me as well ,teacher told me on Thursday, he has settled now, and feels fine during the class hours. But somehow I was feeling I should wait there and watch the situation, so after dropping him into the class, I came outside of premises. Now nobody was there, I went up alone, stood there for two and half hour, as parents were not allowed outside, so I was moving here and there.(so nobody can watch me) I found him crying whole the time, literally I was crying out side,that day was puppet show, so teacher was taking all the kids to another area to watch that, i was seeing him crying behind wall, I found him in maid’s hand, was constantly crying and asking for mumma. I had to put stone on my heart, he cried badly for two and half hours. I was waiting for teacher to come outside, and to take dhyey in my lap..:(
It was really a heartbreaking time for me.and don’t want to recall those moments now..

Bath With Dady-Fun filled Experience

SometimesI had a doubt about Dhyey's love for me. He has expressed that often to me in his own different ways. Sometimes he holds my cheeks in his palm, sometimes he pulls my hair, sometimes he bites me to express his lovely feelings. I was the most preferred one for his hugs and kissies.
 It is really amazing, how Dhyey makes me feel sooo special at times,by letting me know that he needs me and loves me , despite of everyone else and that I mean so much to him!!!!

But now feelings are liitle diverted towards his dady, He starts waiting by 8  at the doorstep till sarang reaches home.he waits to have dinner with him, roaming around building and yes evening bath too after this special occasion.
Last week he had wonderful time with his dady, I was taking him in bathroom for Freshen up, I turned back and I thought,  sarang can also give him shower,
Sarang refused and said, “No, I cant, even dhyey will not enjoy and he may hurt too”, I avoid his excuses and notify  him, you also have to make Strong bond with him, the experience you make with him, will be most enjoyable thing in his life, and see, just within two days, some how I feel that, he is trying to say he loves our company not toys, chocolate,books etc, by saying “mumma-Nany”!!!! he values our time, The memories of such lovely and fun filled experiences reside for a lifetime in their memory, rather than pricey stuffs and gifts.

If one ask him, what do you enjoy most, he says,”mumma-Nany” means, his mom-dad!!!! Omg he is too small to realize such things, but he values the time, we are spending with him, In Recent Days he sleeps with his dady, cuddles him, does kisses and hug him and then after he sleeps. My God,in a little time he has become so affectionate.. such things makes very difficult time to me to pass just 2.5 hrs with out him when he goes to school. Today I am Happy about My decision, YES,,I've made right decision for not Rejoin my Field work.


Dhyey does so much fun every day and each evening I have so many incidents to blog , but by the time I am blogging I forget most of them, but surely i will include all of them separately in upcoming blogs.

I Miss !

 The wishes of a mother for her kids are always contradictory. We want them to grow up fast and achieve Every thing in their life and at the same time we want them to stay our babies for ever!!
Few Days Before I was chatting with my Friend Tejal , she was sharing some issues with his son. We were chit-chatting on our little one’s mischief. On that night I couldn’t sleep easily, I was missing those moments while dhyey was nourishing in my womb, and I was waiting for pops out. This inspired me to write what all I miss..:(
The pink little cute wringled baby,whom first I was scared to touch and lap.
yes I miss My strange and increased-inches look, my eagerness to welcome him, the fear of labour, special attention that I used to get from mom-dad and sarang, those guessing moments about being boy/girl, missing questions that my mom frequently used to ask about movements and kicking times, the anxiety when he was kicking more than usual!!!
Those nursing time(The time that made me very upset and scared and weired initially),
Sleepless nights,the time when dhyey wanted to lied down in my arms, his each expressions, eagerness to listen word”mumma”,and his conversation with his dady(when I came back to Mumbai).

Dhyey's Car-Nama

Dhyey's Car-Nama

Few Months back Dhyey was tooo crazy about Hotwheels Cars, he had a huge collection of HWCars, it lasted for 3-4 months. Let me share one happening of Dhyey’s “Car-nama” .Before 6 months I bought waist set-3pk for him, one of it was his most favorite -,Car Printed all over(2nd Picture) and rest two are with single car print. Rest two are as it is, he doesn’t touch them even and allover car printed…….. well listen,he wears it whole day, I mean 24*7, my god such a crazy he is behind that waist. U will not believe, when I keep that in laundry bag, he picks up again and starts Crying "mumma my car peash, peash". Sometimes I use iron and cooler to make it Dry. for that time, he will wait but will wear nothing. So last month I bought same set from shoppers stop, another set of 3. now two has become four untouched!!!

 

 

 [Dhyey's Car Set]

[Car Printed Waist]

And now,,, now choice is changed totally, he is extreme fan of Thomas and Friend, he is very particular in things. he likes watching TV Program Thomas and Friends on Pogo Channel. While watching Thomas in Tv he takes his own Thomas Engine near to TV and shouts loudest, Same Same Thomas!!!,