Three - Greater than one & two

My lovely baby you learned bunch of things during the year, some part of a set I already included in my previous posts . And some of it I failed to record. I admit it was my little laziness and also because, my words can’t create the magic of your actions and also because I can’t write things as innocently as you say them. Still here is a little try to recollect them.

you chatter everything about your tasks in school.
Your teachers say you are being more affectionate and helpful, if anybody cries you get disturbed.
You are very fine in motor skill and little poor in speech.
Still you have interest in dance as you have before.
you captures photographs in best way from our camera.
You love water colors much than crayons.
You have habit of holding some toy and shawl at sleeping time.
You only eat what you like.
You love to have shower in your tub.
If I ask you to say alphabets: you miss P or Q sometimes , you are very good for 1 to 20.
Sometimes you miss out some lines from rhymes (you know 6-7 complete rhymes till date)
You havelearned shapes, colors, transport, fruits-vegetable name, all social helpers and their work, paper tearing-crumbling-sticking activities,scribbling&painting .
You had Fun with art-craft and many things through out the year.
You have wonderful power of imagination and sometimes you make questions so wisely.
You adjusted yourself while we had very less expectation from you. And also can’t forget about your first week in school.
We are missing your babbling and half sentences and some sweet talks between you and me.
But still your dady wants to hear nenny from you. As Nenny has become daddy now. :)
Aaloo paratha is your favorite food now a days.
You would smile when your dad calls you "guttan".
You sing a song”rangata(colorful butterflies) after you finish milk.
During cuddling time”me mere mumma-dady ka hi baccha hu”
Me bahot accha hu police acchi nahi he. You speak"police" more than10 times a day.
You are attached to all your school friends and teacher and you remembers tiny details of how they talk or how they eat, what they bring in tiffin or how they say certain words and would tell those to me.
I dint try to teach you alphabets and numbers but again you surprised us with your capability to grasp things without us trying hard.
And meri jaan, we are feeling good for you, that we have stopped giving steroids and other drugs to you and you are feeling much better than previous year.
Tomorrow is sarang's Birthday and Dhyey is all excited to celebrate it in full mood. waiting to see his new magics.

Thodi Khatti Thodi mitthi

I was yelling at him: “dhyey jaldi so jao its 10:30”, next day I was surfing at 10 pm n guess what I heard “mumma 10:30 ho gaya so jao”
 He is my early bird , he gets up at  7am on holidays too. And on weekdays he reminds me at 8 am, mom we are being late for school, hurry up plz..:P
He does something to bother me and then before I say something(yes, I look at him with anger), he comes up with flat line “sorry mumma ese nahi karunga, galti ho gayi”  In next couple of hours, son pops out the second mistake!!

Simple or stylish???

I am very simple kid, I like jump jump(red-non branded tshirt) and plain black tee but my mom makes me up with branded and imported clothes on me . I like to wear simple bata shoes but my mom wants me to have mothercare shoes. I don’t like to wear socks but my mom does that. I like hair oiling but mom does it rarely. I like local toys sometimes but mom says its non toxic and not children-safe. Oooh god, save me from Mom…
Mom: who told you are simple kind of kid? Don’t you love mc-donald fries , don’t you like pepsi and othercold drinks, don’t you request for pizza? Don’t you eat pastas? dont you feel happy when you find branded toys or imported food?
Don’t blame me my baby, you are not so simple…

A Truck-Full of Questions

His recent activity is making lots of questions like “mumma ye kon laya, kiske liye laya, kyu laya, mera he na” and bla..bla..bla..
One day he was asking same question for N times, n I replied with little anger, ”beta ek hi cheeze bar bar nahi bolte”, at that time I dint realize that I can also get same answer from him. After few days I told him to speak with me “A for apple B  for Ball” he stared at me n said “EK HI CHEEZE BAR BAR NAHI BOLTE”
See its next generation , Tit for Tat since childhood!!!!

Lets have some more……..

Petrol pump me petrol kidhar se aata hey?
Security kya karti he? Wo soti kyu nahi he?
Me: security chor ko bhagati he.
Fir police kya karti hey?
Me: police bhi chor ko bhagati he,
Fir traffic kon control karta he?
 kiska phone aaya he?
Constant question:
Iske dady kidher gaye, iski mumma kidhar gaye?

And when I throw tantram (esp.when he is not having milk) Muje kyu data????, tussi katti n he runs to the bedroom. Few minutes he will stand alone with crocodile tears  and patch up happens later than mom  expresses regret  

Golden talking

After so long I m posting something, as mumma was being little lazy and yes ofcourse Dhyey and I went to attend my sister’s wedding at ahmedabad. So, little late but I want to post something about him.

Making lots of Question is his latest job to do through out the day ,
Here I share some examples:
He: mumma, change karna he? Aap dress change karenge?
Mumma: No, I like this.
He: mumma karo na, ye gili ho gayi..
Mumma: no beta, Its fine, n not wet too,
He: mumma, change kar lona, papa ko nahi pasand he..
(uuff,, who told him tht his dady doesn’t like that tshirt??)
Mumma: No,Dhyey. Dnt ask again, mumma is not going to change it.
He: okey, abhi niche jayenge, mumma dress change karegi.
( Now I got d purpose behind dress-change, he wanted to go out, so forcing me to change it)
And this is not enough, he will ask for himself to change tshirt every 2-3 hours. Like mumma change karo, ye dirty ho gaya..

he demands for specific tshirt and jeans, he becomes more and more stubborn till he is forced out to wear something else,which is comlimented by a big tantarum.


In Bathroom:
Mumma: Dhyey Don’t touch bucket, very hot water inside.
He: oooh, sudadat??( very hot?)
The way he spoke I really cant interpret  his action and expression into words, I really couldn’t stop laughing)
Now whenever I tell him, dhyey touch cooker or pan, he ask me mumma, its sadadat?? And sometimes commands to his dady “don touch, dady- aa sadadat)

Still he doesn’t like to have a milk, adding pediasure in milk works sometimes and yes stories of course. Difference is now he has started to make stories like, pegion dudu pi le, nahi to bada kese hoga? Pegion tumko tiger jese banna hena, dudhu pi le..,, mumma gussa karegi and talks with living and non living objects. Latest one is chor-police story that he loves to tell everybody.

Chocolate khay, no khay(khay=khavay,khani he)
Yellopop(lollypop) khay , nooooo khay
Futri(Mango-fruity) pivay, naaa pivay,
Dr. inji(injection) aape, mumma guccho(gussa) kare..

He: mumma aapko chapatti chaiye?
Mumma: no baby, I m done.(of love and of baby I call him baby sometimes, he replies , big boy chu mein)
He: 1 aur chahiye?
Mumma: No,,
He: last chaiye? Last?
He wants his mom 2 gain more n more n poor mumma is trying 2 reduce…

Conversation wid his dady:
He: Dady, going to office?
Dady: yes baby..
He: ok, take kale( take care), come soon.
Dady: ok beta, I will.
He: Dady, bus me jayenge?
Dady: ha..
He: train me kyu nahi jayenge? Vapas bus me aayenge? Dhyey office jayega? Dady ne bag liya? Tiffin diya mumma ne? meanwhile he keeps his dady’s shoes out( though we force him not to do that, he does.. so don’t blame us for child labour)
He: dady chalo shoes pehno, mumma ne kisshi kiya, hands par kiya? Muje nahi karna he mumma aap karo..(he rarely allows to have kissy when his dady goes off for work, he forces us to do that) , sometimes I feel we have adult in our house, not a kid…:P

Whenever he falls down while playing he ask for doctor, starts crying loudly and says Dr. paas chalo, dhyey gir gaya, dhyey ko lagi he.. ( so crazy to visit Dr., exact opposite of his mom, in her childhood she used to avoid drs. and her kid finds chance to visit Dr.)

He speaks in mixed language(gujarati, hindi,English,Punjabi, marathi)
Routine questions:
U ask something to him he reverts back with “kyu??”
And one more: “kya hua??”
While he finds somebody seated silently he asks “kya hua?”

He makes some nonsense and mom says Dhyey shut up
He replies: katti, tussi katti( I m not talking 2 u)
Mom: I ll call police, Dhyey scared of him.
He: tussi katti nahi he, aao abhi… :D
I mean he is into the concept of anger and patch up, if he is angry with us then he
Will rush to another room so quickly, and close the door loudly, and then he expect us to patch up.  And when he makes some mistakes and I becomes angry he will say “sorry mumma, meri mumma good girl hena? Maan gayi? Dhyey esa nahi karte, dhyey accha baccha nahi he,mumma ko pareshan nahi karte”. With all efforts he makes me smiled.
I was little worried about his back to school after 40 days gap, but fortunately he did not cry for single time, yes he was overwhelmed on first day after so many off-days.

Chitter-Pitter

Lets have a glimpes:

When Sarang wears officeware,”daddy office? Officeoffice? Dady-bus, daddy,, fittin?(take yr tiffin), bye daddy”....

When I cook something for him, and he likes taste then..”mumma, yimmie yimmie, mumma thnx”. And when he gets full, he starts feeding me..:) I cannot put the voice modulation here how I feel, and the expressions on his face in writing for “yimmie and thnx” but he looks just soooo adorable. Thanks to you meri jaan for appreciation.

Till date he has fear of police, when I want him to sleep(not whole day, everytime),
 “police is coming” is sufficient.:-)

When I ask him”dhyey why are you at home today”, he says” mumma Sunday”(though it may be week days)

Actually I forgot to write about this incident in my last post, it may seem senseless to you but I want to record it for memory so I thought I will write here.
Scene: Harlin, his building friend met with an accident last month and she injured her nose, fortunately she was fine after an hour. Dhyey was in school at that time, when he came back I told him about incident.
Me: “ didi dudhu nahi pi rahi thi to usko nosi par lag gai, aap jaldi se finish karo”
He:  he pointed his nose and said “didi, nosi, shuahh, didi dudhu,bhap” ,means didi ko bahot chot aayi he, dudhu pilena, nahi to fir se gir jaogi) but this formula doesnt works for him..**sigh**
Now the aspect of the story that he has not been able to forget the incident. And everytime I asked to finish something or to make something , he ends up showing his nose and “didi nosi bhap”, meaning "kar lo, nahi to didi jese lagegi". I am yet to figure out why is he not being able to stop thinking about the same. And all these happened for almost one month.

I always try to ask him about his day at playschool, he doesn’t tell me much really, except for some nodes to my questions. But when matter is about his friends he tells concerning all his friends I mean what his friends do there.
He does imitation of his school friends, for example, last week shreya got runny nose, so often he does her mimicry at home and shows me,”mumma shreya nose and he acts ”,  he will make some funny face and says “mumma aahan this”—aahan ese karta hey, ridhima-car(ridhima got car 2day), tisya orange muahh (tisya likes orange) , neil not jump(neil don’t jump) chatar-janaman gan(teacher sings janganman), he never completes his sentences but by merging his words and expression I can frame it into sentence.:-) really, these days its lovely to see him talking.

When something(mostly his schoolbags and water bottle) is broken: he asks for newone and says" teacher- tutu-tutu(broken out)"
(his teacher told me regarding this, he has broken 2 school bags and 2 water bottles in a month, he never hangs his bag at proper place. He lift it and carry along with him for full school hours, when teacher asks him to hang at proper place he starts crying , mumma pease ma bottle ma bag), so I started giving one extra bag for his diper, extra set of clothes and napkin and tiffin box, so that he can move and play easily with his empty school bag( I did not let him know that I gave one of his bag to his teacher), but he knew the thing and now he carries two-bags plus water bottle in his little hand. I mean no use to send him with other extra bag… now you tell me what to do with this kid, he does not want his things to be touched by anyone, infact he does not like concept of sharing… ,he wants himself to be untouched according to her teacher.

You are so kind-hearted!!
when somebody hurts (it may be me, his dady or building friends), he runs and stands with cream, “mumma cream lagao, shuahhh-usko lagi hey”

one more: last week i asked him to get hair oil for sarang’s massage
He came back after 5 minutes with his own hair oil bottle. He did so because he couldn’t find ours. And in real it was not at right place I knew it later when I checked it.It was really lovely moment for me, he gave me oil anyway , even if he could not find a proper one.

When sarang diverts his mind (when he behaves badly or when he doesn’t allow to feed, ) :
Sarang:” Dhyey taru nosee pigeon lai gayu”
Dhyey:” “points his nose and says a ache”
S: “dhyey na hair pegion lai gayu”
D: “Dhyey na   che….”
Meanwhile I complete to fed him or a task for that fun was going on..

One of these days , he said something and I shouted at him. So he walked slowly near me,held his ear and said:”cholli mumma, pease, pease, no guccha”
Me:” No, its not okey”, he went to his dad and started crying with complain:”Neny, mumma guccho mumma guccho”, and then his dad is the clearly favourite parent :-)
I sometimes tell him that I will not talk to you , if you behave like this , usually when he is misbehaving badly. he holds his ear and  patches up within minutes. He really cannot bear me not talking to him and gets upset if I still don’t give in.

These days he constantly suprises me with his logic and understanding of things around him. Before few days I was peeling garlic skin, he took single garlic clove, kept downside and said: “mumma moon” turned position of clove upside and said “car” (just like half circle)Now,this makes me realize how fast he is growing up..:), kids think like sometimes we cant imagine even.

Yesterday night He took my hand into his and wrapped it around his hand and hugged it tight and said "mumma daklo, mumma daklo" (mumma’s son). I was feeling so blessed….(touch wood)

he knows some colors(red,yellow,orange) and basic shapes. He is still weak in alphabet recognizion. He is able to explain what he likes and what bothers him(specially dipers). Yes now he is getting diper-free zone.

If i ask him, "dhyey meri jan" he responce with "i love you"

Sometimes I am so short of words,I just want to say you baby, your unconditional love has made our lives more precious, There is lot more but I just cannot recall, so let it be just this , before I post something new :-)
 we love you jaan..

FOOD FOOD AND FOOD

I was just going back at the time that passed by and I felt that through out my journey of motherhood I did most challenging job on my own very well and I feel satisfied about it.And yes it was only my decision what should be fed to my child Infact I have not just planned his daily meal, I have fed him with my fingers.(I mean not even sarang n set of mums).:)and that makes me feel pretty satisfied. I think “how to feed kids, what and when to feed kids” is the most toughest  job for all moms.In my case I suffered many times on different stages for dhyey’s poor diet, needless to say, dhyey was unwell at that time, it may be the reason but now I am quite satisfied with his diet.in short I have not much complains regarding his diet except milk.

I have never forced him to eat. But milk is something thats vital. So sometimes he drinks with incentives like new cups , different glass, some chocolates, some stories, outing, changed flavours and all that. Before few days I was going through some articles they mentioned a food chart for toddlers . I was really shocked really kids eat this much as per they described in chart? Or is it their wish to eat them? One thing I all the time believed was that I cannot, could not and should not follow any meal plan or diet chart available on internet. Yes sometimes I pick up some healthy recipes or new ideas from some sources(I read plenty of material on baby feeding) but I never really got stuck to one. I just grabbed whatever I liked from each of them. And one thing that I grabbed was that we should try and include all the different food groups in every day’s diet. I just consider the foods are rich in carbohydrates ,fats , protiens and includes veggies and fruits (seasonal).

These days I include (uttapam, rotis or parathas with chocolate-dryfruit spread, with chessy creamy spread, variation in rice –pulao and khichdi, different pancakes, pasta, Maggie with multigrain,dairy product(curd,yoghurt, sliced cheese,butter), upma,poha, some dryfuits, milk-oats, thepla, stuffed parathas, different kind of dals, soups,some row fruits and veggies as much as possible) with some variation in his weekly plan or diet. I try to make balance between taste, health and possibility.
It doesn’t mean I don’t respect my child’s preferences and I go through this only but I do it and try to introduce healthy foods to him, and never force him to complete it, I believe if he is hungry he would have it and one day of hunger or junk food doesn’t mean to the end of his growth.

He eats what I prepare for us, and on weekends sometimes we go out then he also enjoys burger or fries or anything we eat, be it junk foods at a times.:) And I think kids are really not mistaken all the time, they need variety in food too, if I get bored of same stuff daily so will he.Tthey follow by example like if I indulge into lots of junk food or frozen or ready to eat food, so would they, they should get it slowly and steadily I think so. In all I am happy with the way I am doing at least in this field of parenting. Touch wood ….. :-)
Its not that feeding him has been easy like it seems in this post. I have my own bad days ,he literally does not want to eat or takes his plate and goes to neighbor’s home and then becomes too cranky and fuzzy eater.(esp last year) but then I have learnt to live with them.
Thank you dhyey for inspiring my cooking art...!!

Complete pack..

How do they manage to be cute littleone, naughty monkey and sweetheart all in a day???


When you goes off to school,you look so cute littleone, and then mom feels so alone at home without you for three hours though she remains busy with household chores, she just thinks of you during her work. she feels saddy and no single smile at all….
(when I drop him to school, I am having always same questions, will he eat his snack on his own or will they help him?, will he tell pee n poo to his teacher, as I am sending him without dipers from this week, will he be protected there?what will he like better? Will he enjoy there?,,… etc)
And so me being me, mostly I am having butterflies in my stomach when I go to pick him up..

Naughty monkey,, after school, you make naughtiest face possibles and demands for stuff that I cant give you …, your naughty behaviour, silly stories and rhymes making us happy.

Sweetheart,,  I am feeling blessed when u hugs me tightly and when you give me N number of kisses at bedtime.

Dhyey's First visit in theatre

Movie Experince:

Few Days before we took him to watch movie "Zindagi na milegi doobara", We have never been in theatre with him, it was his first experience in theatre. As usual movie was started by National Anthem “jan-gana-man….”  He stood mutely, after that, “mumma-nanny chalo”( mom-dad ghar chalo)

guess why??????
Because school ends with National Anthem…:P
Mumma: “baby its just beginning, watch big TV over here..:-)”
Okey,
Let me share his experience over there: well,,, as expected, don’t know but somehow I was feeling that he will enjoy in theatre and movie too, and happened the same.very first I looked at him, I was little confused because he was totally speechless, expressionless!!
I asked him: beta, ghar jana he? He nodded his head and I got Biggg “Nooooo” from his side. , he was observing it peacefully. How can I say he observed well?? Because he has rememberd every scenes and songs as he tells me when he finds some scenes in trailers and songs in TV, and says “mumma, same same movie”. Recognize each and every scene of it… well now we have no troubles to take him along in Movie…. Cheers mumma!!!!!

Some Snippets from Dhyey's Planet

Fear of Police:

he has a fear of Police!!!

When he does some mischiefs, police has become a good medicine for him,
Last week i told him, police locks the kids who doesn’t drink milk and eat properly.
By the moment in every talk, he tells me, mumma do this otherwise, police will lock up you!!! Now u sayme, who is mom hear??
And sometimes, I tell him, dhyey police is coming, at the moment he starts running, and hide somewhere in a second!! , I cant stop laughing..:D

Now I have fear, how can I flash fear of police from his mind???
*******Sad mumma, u should have to think about it before u punish your cute baby…********


Sleeping Habit


He asks me to cover himself with his blanket as soon as he is in bed. When I do so , he asks me to sleep with him, he hugs me lovingly, lays his lips on my cheeks(way of kissing) and then he sleeps cheerfully.

One step Further:
He moved his little fingers from my head through my hair. (aah!!! Divine Feelings) and then he did massage on my head and then he laid hands over my hair and rubbed it.
 I asked him, “guru, what is Going on??”,
Guru:”Mumma, masas , hay oil” (massage n hair oil)..
(one day he found me doing so on sarang’s head while hair oiling)

I am Thinking , he is All Grownup now!!!


Sorry mumma:
When he feels he has made some mistakes (as I stop speaking with him, n he gets idea of the situation).  He holds his both ears , and bend his head on right shoulder then left-right-left shoulder continuously with big smile and says “sorry mumma, please”. till I says “its okay, don’t do this again”. And sometimes, he hits himself and speaks alone, say sorry, say sorry 2 mumma.. :p

This lovely boy gives in return, u see,,here..
When I scold him he says me,”u  shapap, shapap” (shut up),
Police, police,, (police aayegi, dhyey ko danta kyu??)


Kitchen Lover:

Some of u might know about my love of cooking,, now here is the extension!!!!
Guru also loves being in kitchen. During my work in kitchen(work for recipes I post on my blog), he accompanies me , arranges vassals in shapes and size wise, he adds something and makes container empty, transfers from one to another jar, has become his routine in kitchen. He doesn’t like to go away from mumma and her kitchen as well. He observes me while I takes some photos of food and some dishes.,
Now he got a new trend, u know he arranges some toys or objects in some manner and asks me to take a photograph of his creativity!!! See here is a result of his carving &creation:

Bath With Dady-Fun filled Experience

SometimesI had a doubt about Dhyey's love for me. He has expressed that often to me in his own different ways. Sometimes he holds my cheeks in his palm, sometimes he pulls my hair, sometimes he bites me to express his lovely feelings. I was the most preferred one for his hugs and kissies.
 It is really amazing, how Dhyey makes me feel sooo special at times,by letting me know that he needs me and loves me , despite of everyone else and that I mean so much to him!!!!

But now feelings are liitle diverted towards his dady, He starts waiting by 8  at the doorstep till sarang reaches home.he waits to have dinner with him, roaming around building and yes evening bath too after this special occasion.
Last week he had wonderful time with his dady, I was taking him in bathroom for Freshen up, I turned back and I thought,  sarang can also give him shower,
Sarang refused and said, “No, I cant, even dhyey will not enjoy and he may hurt too”, I avoid his excuses and notify  him, you also have to make Strong bond with him, the experience you make with him, will be most enjoyable thing in his life, and see, just within two days, some how I feel that, he is trying to say he loves our company not toys, chocolate,books etc, by saying “mumma-Nany”!!!! he values our time, The memories of such lovely and fun filled experiences reside for a lifetime in their memory, rather than pricey stuffs and gifts.

If one ask him, what do you enjoy most, he says,”mumma-Nany” means, his mom-dad!!!! Omg he is too small to realize such things, but he values the time, we are spending with him, In Recent Days he sleeps with his dady, cuddles him, does kisses and hug him and then after he sleeps. My God,in a little time he has become so affectionate.. such things makes very difficult time to me to pass just 2.5 hrs with out him when he goes to school. Today I am Happy about My decision, YES,,I've made right decision for not Rejoin my Field work.


Dhyey does so much fun every day and each evening I have so many incidents to blog , but by the time I am blogging I forget most of them, but surely i will include all of them separately in upcoming blogs.

I Miss !

 The wishes of a mother for her kids are always contradictory. We want them to grow up fast and achieve Every thing in their life and at the same time we want them to stay our babies for ever!!
Few Days Before I was chatting with my Friend Tejal , she was sharing some issues with his son. We were chit-chatting on our little one’s mischief. On that night I couldn’t sleep easily, I was missing those moments while dhyey was nourishing in my womb, and I was waiting for pops out. This inspired me to write what all I miss..:(
The pink little cute wringled baby,whom first I was scared to touch and lap.
yes I miss My strange and increased-inches look, my eagerness to welcome him, the fear of labour, special attention that I used to get from mom-dad and sarang, those guessing moments about being boy/girl, missing questions that my mom frequently used to ask about movements and kicking times, the anxiety when he was kicking more than usual!!!
Those nursing time(The time that made me very upset and scared and weired initially),
Sleepless nights,the time when dhyey wanted to lied down in my arms, his each expressions, eagerness to listen word”mumma”,and his conversation with his dady(when I came back to Mumbai).

my taklu.. i love you!!!

we went 2 ahmedabad for dhyey's mundan vidhi... my god my taklu was so crying at the time of mundan..  he had a chicken pox few months back so.. v did not make him clean cut, still he looks tako mundo.. i call him" mari takli". harshy chickenpox has spoiled my jaan's skin. requesting god to protect my little life.

beginning of the second year!!!!

Through out the year dhyey was very healthy child, but the year end was terrible for him. In my previous writing I put down about dhyey’s cold and cough. Usually I didn't panic over the appearance of fever, cough and all that. What worried me was that there seemed other symptoms like he seemed with bad appetite. His breathing was rapid and noisy. He seemed all the time tired and Continuous quite high fever at 104 [degrees]. And most unusual symptom- hives, red pinkish to red bumps on the body. Foremost I thought it was mosquito bites, but unfortunately it was not that. So we decided to take him to pediatrician and dermatologist rather than treating the fever with over-the-counter remedies – my typical habit. i was in ahmedabad to attend my bro's angagement, so we continued his cure in ahmedabad. doctor proceeded to carry out his usual thorough physical examination, after which he announced that he was unable to find a clear source for hives.And finally he concluded pnemonia by taking an X-ray, and several blood testing. And for hives he recommended to visit the skin specialist. According to skin expert that hives was due to increased WBC counts and also it may cause by pneumonia. Subsequently he recommended to keep on with pneumonia treatment, and given the way out that when pneumonia will recovered, hives will automatically be vanished. All these required him to be hospitalized for six days, and further told to continue antibiotics at home for 1 month. But I had an attack of intuition and somehow felt that this was not the explanation, although i did not want to contradict our doctor whom my father in law had respected many years, as they are our neighbor. and also a decent dr., prafull patel. so i did nothing until Dhyey got fever down. All through this instant Dhyey finished first year, we could not celebrate his first birthday. his 13th month was finished by same routine as 12th , but hives was not vanished. So we taken him to the Dr. Raju.C.Shah- Ankur Institute Of Child Health, very intelligent and city-famous pediatrician.But again medicine did not work on him, and shuffled skin expert Dr. Ramesh Poria. Now Dhyey has entered into 14th month, hives expansion has decresed now, we have to observe it for 15 days more as per dr’s estimation. Lets see what happens after that. If it would not be vanished in these 15 days afterward we are scheduling next appointment in breach candy or hinduja  hospital, in our city. we wish the whole thing would be all right.

keeping my promise.. (Second Month)

Dhyey has recoverd now, i am remembering that MOTHER PROMISE that i had made to God,
So, planning to visit temples Dundash (mahuva ), Matel, bhav nagar, Gondal, Halenda n many more in saurastra. Dhyey is 1 and half month old now. he smiles and track objects with his eyes. he makes different noises like aaaavvva,ooooo. and repeat vowel noises like ah, ooh, uh, etc.
His schedule varies quite a bit from day to day like waking up at night to eat. Waking periods during the day are starting to last longer. Dhyey usually takes 2 hr. continuous sleep in a day time. He likes rattle balls and Smiles during interactions with my parents.
He tries to lay on tummy but still not able to control the movement for long periods of time. I hope it would be in my next post!!!

resolution

About Dhyey

Having a baby is the most valued feeling which is unparalleled with any other feelings.
Watching their development in front of our eyes is the imperative part of our memories and it will stay with us till we live. baby’s first year grant a learning camber unlike any other. here i am trying to put my feelings into words.

Birth : 19th march, 2009, 8:00 p.m.
Place : Ahmedabad
weight: 3.3 kg
hospital name: ayush hospital, vastral.

when I finally get to hold my precious baby!!!!

On March 19,2009 my baby boy-Dhyey was born. he was truly attractive baby.sleeping through the night from the day when i saw him in hospital first time after 2 days of his birth.I was not able to control my feelings when i was said that i can't touch him even.baby was delivered by LSCS at Ahmedabad with birth weight of 3.3 kg. soon after his birth,Dr.knew something was terribly wrong.there was foul smelling thick meconium. he had respiratory distress after birth so he was admitted to children's criticare soon after his first 5 minutes. it was really tough time of my life. i had not enough strength to wipe my tears, i turned back and had a conversation with god," Oh god, Please help me, i want to live to see my baby grow up and want to care him till my eyes are open, give him a new life to my little heart,i made a promise to god, i will visit temples, read holy books page by page and had resolutions too.", finally God woke up, they helped Drs. and Dhyey recovered very well, After 9 days in hospital journey, we came home. i was surprised to see nicely decorated baby room with cake and with baby stuffs created by my sweet little sister surbhi and brother jagdish, they welcomed us warmly, Dhyey got a nick name "GURU" by his mom, meaning of Guru is "one who dispels darkness of ignorance". During the first month dhyey spent large amount of time sleeping. There were also few activities that were done while awake, including studying faces, response to light and sound, attempts to lift head for short time, side and arm movement, strong sight within 1 feet close items. My 22 days old dhyey took a bath first time. he did not like pacifiers and sweddling.baby may take him /her until he's/she’s about 5 or 6 months to flip from back to front, because he needs stronger neck and arm muscles for that but Dhyey is amazing in this matter, he rolled over front-back position when he was 23 days old, isn’t it amazing??

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Third Trimester

Feelings were changed and became much stronger. At this trimester, i was feeling fine, and nausea and problems like dizziness has almost gone. we held a baby shower on 6th January, 2009 at Ahmedabad home. i was gaining too much, at the end of trimester i was gained by 19 kg. literally i was feeling like i am maintaining mountain.

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second Trimester

Quickening:
The highlight of the second trimester is the baby movement..
i was surfing and suddenly Ifelt something and it was like nobody can be aware of it.It was initial stage of second trimester.but at the end of this stage i was feeling fine than the first one.
second trimester ultrasound photos:

ultrasound

First Trimester

It was a lovely feeling of expectation and excitement as I begun to notice the all signs of pregnancy.
we went to the doctor, everything was fine, Ultrasound went fine, a healthy baby was nourishing in my belly. I heard my baby's heartbeat. it was very rapid and much faster than an adult's.it was near 180 beats per minute (BPM).