Forgiving others is the best attitude to take!!!

I loved the moral of this story , as i read somewhere and couldn't resist to post it. 

A kindergarten teacher decided to let her class play a game. The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number of people he/she hates. 

So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some 3 while some up to 5 potatoes. 

The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for one week. Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides, those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After one week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended. 

The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes with you for one week?" The children let out their frustrations and started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. 

Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just one week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred in your heart for your lifetime???" 

A lesson for all - young and old. Throw away any hatred  / dislike for anyone . Forgiving others is the best attitude to take! This will cleanse the mind and the soul .

Mini-silly celebration...

 Mini letter & silly celebration..


Dear dhyey,

You were born on 19th march 2009, a day I can not forget in my life. this little man has completed two and half years on 19th sept. I cant digest!!!!

A day since you were born to till date, I havent forget your special times like your first movement, crawling, standing, walking, talking,running, your dance, and your terrible arthritis.

You don’t know how I feel when I see the happiness in your face you come out from your classroom,when you complain against your daddy and say “mumma-daklo”,when you run behind me saying mumma, mumma…

And you know how bad I feel when you are too unwell, when you fall down and you get hurted or somebody hurts you.

Your daddy loves your smile; on that special day we tried to make you smiled with silly celebration, anything for your smile my son!!!

That morning I dropped you to school and went to the temple to acquire blessings for you, I cooked your all most favorite food- banana muffins, kiwi juice, veggie balls and Mexican pockets, and popcorn. Your Daddy surprised you with some balloons, lollipops, pastries and your all-time fav. V-tech toys, and then we went to mcdonald, when we came back you were so curious to get toys out of boxes, and you slept with those toys along with you.

some precious moments we caught in camera:::

My  house seems weirdly calm and deserted without the chik-chik of little feet, the laughter and of course the excited shouts. Each day has been special and precious since you were born.

Hope you grow up to be happy, healthy, intelligent and my strong boy. And get all the success and happiness in life.


Sixth Month