Updated with Technologies

Updated With Technology

Daddy, why do you work with windows 8 and not with 10? Daddy replied that’s because I have something to do with 8 only, but how do you know about windows 8 and 10? His answer was really remarkable, he said I know about 8 because you are using it, and Costco is selling laptop with windows 10!, believe me we haven’t see electronics department since a year, neither we have talk about this nor he has asked to anyone, but for me, what he explored is just to be a proud of him.

P.s. when we asked in detail, he said he was walking n holding our finger, we just passed by that aisle he saw screen and fixed in his mind in a millisecond!

Missing Tooth

Missing Tooth

YES!!! Finally that day came for what you have waited a long. It was the day of rakhi (rakshabandhan) August 29, 2015 on Saturday you missed your first tooth. You were quite excited and did not cry but we couldn’t stop laughing when you were speaking with missing tooth. You were announcing to everyone, my tooth fell out! Second day you asked me mom, when tooth fairy will come and bring gifts for me? I did not want to lie to him so told him tooth fairy doesn’t exists, it’s just in stories but I can be tooth fairy for you and bring gifts which you like. And He got Thomas train set his all-time favorite.

Till now you have loosen only one lower side, second has started to move. I tease you so many times by calling “Bokhi”. Love you baby.

In my Last post I have written he is crazy to go to first grade and ride a bike without side wheels, yes he started riding without support since three months, as usual you catch up it in only five minutes!

Here I am sharing your picture on first day for first Grade:

Dhyey's performance in Shaimak's USA Summer Funk 2015

You Enjoyed your Dance classes,

You performed on songs: Dhoom machale from dhoom-2, and Raghupati raghav from krish-3.  

Here I am sharing link of it, Feeling blessed for super cute boy!
P.S. Position: Right side

GapShap

My teeth are not falling out

Oh mumma, my all friends are loosing their teeth, when will be my turn? I don’t know why he likes to be tooth less. I said him that you got your baby tooth late hence it will take little long to fall out..
So sweet he is!!

So excited to go to First grade:

If someone asks him which grade you are in, He says “ I will go to first grade next year!!”

Fear of removing support wheels from bike:

“dady please don’t remove side wheels, who will hold my bike then”

Crazy for Chicago

U love to live in house. You miss Chicago so much. Whenever we cross through houses you say to your dady, lets shift to Chicago. I love Chicago only. You remembered everything about chicago’s house. Hope we will take you next year to see your excitement.

Happy 6th Birthday!!

Happy Birthday My child, you are six years today! You look still skinny and yes tall now. But I see you so many ways, as my new born baby who was struggling to breathe, your white beautiful eyes made me mad. As a toddler you were fighting to come out of diseases. As a preschooler you impressed so many people around you and me by your clear speech and your imagination. Today I see so many hopes and dreams in your eyes. I feel so lucky to be your mom, when I knew I’m going to be mom six-seven years ago, I never thought to love you much more than ever possible. I am little emotional but I know few years later you will not need me to understand my posts and attached feelings with them. I ll come up with your demand for themed party, all pics and everything with next post.

My Magical man, I love you so much, Be blessed always : sweet little note from your mumma.

Emotions!!

Two days ago, sarang was waking up Dhyey to get ready for school. He dint wake up easily so he tickled him. Now D also wanted to tickle him back and he pushed him little. S was in naughty mood, he pushed his own head towards wall and started pretending like dhyey has hurt him, Dhyey became serious “dady, did I hurt you, really?”, S wanted to tease him more he said, yes buddy, u hurt me I want to cry…ee.e..e. Dhyey would have started laughing if this incident was happened last month. But now things are different. Fun has converted into emotions. D started crying, God please forgive me, I dint hurt my dad intentionally. I was thinking he is crying because he has just woken up. But it was not like that because it lasted till he went to bed at night. S convinced him I was kidding. I am all right, you dint hurt me. But this was not enough. He said sorry with all his feelings when he left for school. When he came from school he told me to call his dad and ask he is alright or not. Last of all when S came from work he hugged him and started crying "daddy, by mistake I hurt you today. You are so best, i can’t hurt you."  Till that moment, neither S nor I have asked even why did you hurt or how it happened. I was there when all this was happened. I know he dint do anything which might hurt his dad. And for one thing I am most proud mom that he never lies to me, if something has been wrong or broken or somebody is hurt by him, he accepts his mistake. He has fear of mine when he does something wrong but not so fearful to tell me the truth. Thank You god for sending this honest boy in our life. So I was very sure about his words. So many times we do this kind of fun but no one says sorry or gives clarifications. I can see now a days if we get hurt he becomes more panic. But I was really questioning to me from where these sentiments are created!!

Rhyme Words

Mom: Tell me some Rhyme words

D:  Amitabh bacchan and Abhishek bachhan. :P

ANTARYAMI

Few days back we were listening swami’s preaching. He caught new word “Antaryami”.
D: “Dad what is the meaning of ‘antaryami’”
Dad: “someone who knows or can read others mind, like God”.

Two days later,

He was coming from school with his friend, on the way they both were talking on usual things. He started telling latest story about Pepa  pig…. That girl replied” ohh I know, later then this n that happened in that story, I know everything about that story.”  He quits for some time. Again he started” My class teacher Mrs. Meyer, she had…bla bla bla.. “That girl said “oh I know that you are in Mrs. Meyer’s class n she had..bla.. bla.. bla..” later then he spoke nothing.

When we reached to home, he was silent and I found him in deep thinking.
I asked him what you are thinking about; he said I have one question:
“MOM TELL ME, IS SHE (his friend) ‘ANTARYAMI’???”

Birthday gift in advance

In recent times I was busy with settling up in new apartment and that’s why at the end of the day we become very exhausted and sleepy. That resulted into missing bed time stories some nights. So this smart one has commanded one promise to him for his birthday that “one story at bedtime without fail for full march month”. And Mom committed. :-)

100 ways to be kind to your child

Tell your child:

1. I love you.
2. I love you no matter what.
3. I love you even when you are angry at me.
4. I love you even when I am angry with you.
5. I love you when you are far way.  My love for you can reach you wherever you are.
6. If I could pick any 4 year old (5 year old, 6 year old…) in the whole wide world, I’d pick you.
7. I love you to the moon and then around the stars and back again.
8. Thank you.
9. I enjoyed playing with you today.
10. My favorite part of the day was when I was with you and we _______.

Share:
11. The story of their birth or adoption.
12. About how you cuddled them when they were a baby.
13. The story of their name.
14. A story about yourself when you were their age.
15. The story of how their grandparents met.
16. What your favorite color is.
17. That sometimes you struggle too.
18. That when you’re holding hands and you give three squeezes, it’s a secret code that means, “I love you”.
19. What the plan is.
20. What you’re doing right now.

Play:
21. Charades
22. Hop Scotch
23. Board Games
24. Hide & Seek
25. Simon Says
26. Twenty Questions
27. I Spy on long car rides
28. Catch

Pretend:
29. To catch their kiss and put it on your cheek.
30. That their tickle tank is empty and you have to fill it.
31. That their high five is so powerful it nearly knocks you over.
32. That you are super ticklish.
33. That you are explorers in the amazing world of your own backyard.
34. That it’s party day!

Try:
35. To get enough sleep.
36. To drink enough water.
37. To eat decent food.
38. Dressing in a way that makes you feel confident and comfortable.
39. Calling a friend the next time you feel like you are about to lose it with the kids.
40. Giving a gentle touch to show approval.
41. Dancing in the kitchen.
42. To get your kids to bop to the music with you in the car.
43. Showing your kids that you can do a somersault or handstand or a cartwheel.
44. Keeping the sigh to yourself.
45. Using a kind voice, even if you have to fake it.

Read:
46. A book of silly poems.
47. A story and then act out the plot.
48. Your favorite childhood book to them.
49. When the afternoon is starting to go astray.
50. Outside under a tree.
51. In the library kids corner.
52. The comic book they love that you’re not so hot on.
53. About age appropriate behavior so you can keep your expectations realistic.

Listen:
54. To your child in the car.
55. To silly songs together.
56. For that question that means your child really needs your input.
57. One second longer than you think you have patience for.
58. For the feelings behind your child’s words.

Ask:
59. Why do you think that happens?
60. What do you think would happen if______?
61. How shall we find out?
62. What are you thinking about?
63. What was your favorite part of the day?
64. What do you think this tastes like?

Show:
65. Your child how to do something instead of banning them from it.
66. How to whistle with a blade of grass.
67. How to shuffle cards- make a bridge if you can!
68. How to cut food.
69. How to fold laundry.
70. How to look up information when you don’t know the answer.
71. Affection to your spouse.
72. That taking care of yourself is important.

Take Time:
73. To watch construction sites.
74. To look at the birds.
75. To let your child pour ingredients into the bowl.
76. To walk places together.
77. To dig in the dirt together.
78. To do a task at your child’s pace.
79. To just sit with your child while they play.

Trust:
80. That your child is capable.
81. That you are the right parent for your child.
82. That you are enough.
83. That you can do what is right for your family.

Delight:
84. Clean your child’s room as a surprise.
85. Put chocolate chips in the pancakes.
86. Put a love note in their lunch.
87. Make their snack into a smiley face shape.
88. Make sound effects while you help them do something.
89. Sit on the floor with them to play.

Let Go:
90. Of the guilt.
91. Of how you thought it was going to be.
92. Of your need to be right.

Give:
93. A kind look.
94. A smile when your child walks into the room.
95. A kind touch back when your child touches you.
96. The chance to connect before you correct so that your child can actually hear your words.
97. Your child a chance to work out their frustrations before helping them.
98. A bath when the day feels long.
99. A hug.
100. You get to choose the next one!  What is your favorite way to be kind to your child?

(what I choose is Hug him for a minute when he feels that all are against him )

credit :creative with kids